Only by leaving you will everything be all right.

"I don't know what I want to do, so I go to college."

going to college won't solve this problem, nor can "gap year", but work can.

especially the first job after graduating from college, the meaning of its existence is not to let you know what you should do.

after the initial freshness, life is only a monotonous and exhausting cycle, daily work is non-stop drawing, measurement, acceptance …...

they all say that work is for a better life, but my life is not better because of this job. In that almost closed construction environment, I obviously feel that I am getting out of touch with the outside world.

this life will not change much in the foreseeable next decade.

in fact, many colleagues thought about changing careers, but eventually chose to stay, because after a few years, they found that they could do nothing but construction.

this is really a helpless thing.

every time I work late at night, I look up at the night sky. Only the lights on the tower crane are sprinkled on me, but it doesn't point to where I want to go.

after realizing this, I decided to leave, and many leaders came to persuade me at that time.

the reason is very simple, because large national industries are usually only recruited from fresh graduates, not even those in the second year of graduation, which means that if I leave now, it will be more difficult for me to get back in later.

in the eyes of many people, in such a competitive society, it is not a wise choice to throw away an iron rice bowl within the system.

because state-owned enterprises are naturally as good and stable as state-owned enterprises, with complete welfare insurance, and will train new people.

but I left without hesitation, and the reason is very simple.

II.

what many people don't realize is that in many cases, your originally arranged life can be torn apart at will.

my feeling is that when I was young, if I found that I had chosen the wrong industry, of course I had to leave in time.

We can keep changing jobs and companies, but don't change careers easily.

I have changed four jobs, but only once, because changing jobs and changing careers are two different things. In the same industry, the original professional skills are continuous, and changing careers means that everything needs to start all over again.

after the initial freshness, life is only a monotonous and exhausting cycle, daily work is non-stop drawing, measurement, acceptance …...

they all say that work is for a better life, but my life is not better because of this job. In that almost closed construction environment, I obviously feel that I am getting out of touch with the outside world.

this life will not change much in the foreseeable next decade.

in fact, many colleagues thought about changing careers, but eventually chose to stay, because after a few years, they found that they could do nothing but construction.

this is really a helpless thing.

every time I work late at night, I look up at the night sky. Only the lights on the tower crane are sprinkled on me, but it doesn't point to where I want to go.

after realizing this, I decided to leave, and many leaders came to persuade me at that time.

the reason is very simple, because large national industries are usually only recruited from fresh graduates, not even those in the second year of graduation, which means that if I leave now, it will be more difficult for me to get back in later.

in the eyes of many people, in such a competitive society, it is not a wise choice to throw away an iron rice bowl within the system.

because state-owned enterprises are naturally as good and stable as state-owned enterprises, with complete welfare insurance, and will train new people.

but I left without hesitation, and the reason is very simple.

II.

what many people don't realize is that in many cases, your originally arranged life can be torn apart at will.

my feeling is that when I was young, if I found that I had chosen the wrong industry, of course I had to leave in time.

We can keep changing jobs and companies, but don't change careers easily.

I have changed four jobs, but only once, because changing jobs and changing careers are two different things. In the same industry, the original professional skills are continuous, and changing careers means that everything needs to start all over again.

We always do this. When we encounter setbacks, we hide in our imaginary parallel universe. In the "if I don't leave" universe, there is not so much imminent anxiety.

but as long as you get through that period, you will find that everything will slowly get better.

then it's no big deal.

instead of hiding in the universe of "if I hadn't left", find comfort.

We can deny our current skills and abilities, but we must not deny our choices, because it represents your inner desire and the life you want to pursue.

Grab the fashionable simple lace wedding dress for any coming party or your planned date. Worry free the minute you buy.

it may be a bit mysterious to say this, but people who are born with self-awareness are born with strong self-awareness, which is why they are so powerful.

finally.

in fact, there are many young people like me who have changed jobs several years after graduation.

at any time, there is nothing wrong with pursuing the life you want.

my advice is that when this job has a great negative impact on your body and mind, you can resign. There is nothing to hesitate about.

if your application is easily approved, it means you have chosen the wrong job, so you should leave.

author /Tan Min

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