I can accept cheating under such circumstances.

some time ago, when my boyfriend never read my "instruction manual", there was one of my notes, "I accept physical infidelity with advance notice," which is difficult for many readers to understand.

believe me, this is not a hasty point of view, or even a long process to accept it.

I want to share this process with you because I find that its meaning is not so superficial or vulgar on the surface, and love and trust can be expressed behind it.

I thought about it carefully, which originated late one night last summer.

that night, my boyfriend and I had a big fight. The content of the quarrel is no longer important, the important thing is that we discussed a topic after settling down, called:

"what have you been struggling with for a long time, but you never dare to tell me?"

I think exchanging secrets is the beginning of rebuilding our trust.

my boyfriend is on the other end of the phone, flapping a cigarette and a long silence.

it was 03:30 in the morning, and I was sitting alone on the roof of the dormitory. I looked up at the moon, half covered by clouds, and bowed my head to the cigarette butts left by the girls in the art school. He didn't break the silence until I kicked the fifteenth cigarette butt dipped in lipstick down the steps.

he told me word for word, "sometimes I want to experience sex in more than one person."

it's shocking. I have to get up and walk.

the strong wind shouted hard at the clouds, covering the other half of the moon.

I don't have the strength to have a second quarrel, especially on a night like this.

so I had to sigh deeply, not sigh, because I was delusional to let out both grievances and anger through this breath.

immediately came from the phone, "you're fine, but this has nothing to do with you. It's my own problem. Trust me."

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then I realized that he was suffering from the same silence as me, and he knew what I was thinking from beginning to end.

most importantly, he made me believe.

at this point, the topic can be carried on in a less extreme way.

my boyfriend started sharing this feeling with me.

it's not ready to move, even lonely.

the only difference is that first love is beautiful, but "sexual curiosity" is shameful.

I think of another male friend who is the kind of man who stops by the side of the road to give his girlfriend a foot massage when she is tired of shopping.

but the more we take it seriously, the more frightened we are about "betrayal" and the more eager we are for "rich experience".

is cheap and vulgar.

I don't really want to do this.

but in the end, sex is an important part of our vulgar life.

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after marriage, one in three men has sex with a non-partner, and there are relatively few women, but nearly 1/7 of women have cheating. And this number is increasing year by year.

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after marriage, one in three men has sex with a non-partner, and there are relatively few women, but nearly 1/7 of women have cheating. And this number is increasing year by year.

after marriage, one in three men has sex with a non-partner, and there are relatively few women, but nearly 1/7 of women have cheating. And this number is increasing year by year.

including later I went to ask my boyfriend why I had to choose this thing to tell me at that time. Didn't I know that the roof was very cold at night?

"seriously, are you a little unhappy today?"

finally.

they are not right or wrong, but they are important criteria for judging whether you are suitable or not.

after all, all the next step of loyalty comes after the previous step of honesty.

author /Li Xiaoqi

song /Anchor

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